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You’ve said yes to the man of your dreams and now it is time for your bridesmaids to say yes to accompanying you on your special day! Here are the top ways we love seeing our brides ask their bridesmaids to be in their wedding!

Don’t forget we offer styled shoots so we can capture your special moment of asking your best friends to be in your wedding!

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With a ring of their own

Not a wedding ring, but show your bridesmaids how much they mean to you by “proposing” to them with a unique ring of their own! Not only is this a great way to get your bridesmaids gifts they will actually wear again, but this is a sweet gesture perfect for sentimental brides and bridesmaids!

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Personalized Shot Glasses/ Champagne Flutes

Perfect for bachelorette/bachelor party fun, personalized shot glasses can be made for everyone in the bridal party! Regardless of whether you have a drinking savvy crew or not, custom shot glasses are keepsakes that can be treasured forever from a shelf —or put to use!

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Wine Labels

Perfect for the group of gals that love wine night, custom wine labels are a perfect way to invite your besties to be by your side on your special day! Not only will they appreciate the effort and creativity that went into asking, they’ll also love being able to actually drink their gift! (Bonus points if you chose their favorite wine to re-label!)

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A box with a balloon in it

If you want to literally pop the question, this is the way to go. Write down “Will you be my bridesmaid” or any other variation of that question on a slip of paper and put it in a heart or ring shaped balloon for them to pop!

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A custom bottle of champagne

Another way to “pop the question,” letting your bridesmaid-to-be pop open a bottle of bubbly with a custom “Will you be my bridesmaid” label is the perfect way to ask your bestie to be by your side on your wedding day! For extra fun take your friend on a girl’s day in the park, or a picnic, and gift your custom bottle there!

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Write a heartfelt letter

You can never go wrong with a heartfelt letter. If you are thinking of making this person your bridesmaid they obviously mean a great deal to you and you probably have a lot of feelings towards them! Put those thoughts on paper and let your bestie know how much they really mean to you!

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Luggage Tags

Having a destination wedding? Custom luggage tags are the perfect way to ask your bffs to tag along as bridesmaids! Luggage tags are also perfect for long distance best friends you want to accompany you during your special day!

A personalized tote

Personalized totes are practical and cute — if done right. These can be monogrammed or customised however you’d like and are perfect for showing your girls just how much they mean to you!

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A personalized blanket

Having a winter wedding or thinking of having your bachelorette party in the mountains somewhere? A personalized blanket is the cutest way to ask your friend to join you at your wedding! An added personal touch would be to complete the blanket with a custom mug and hot cocoa set! Adorable!

What they will be wearing on the day of your wedding

Bridesmaid robes are a cute trend that is here to stay! Get your bridesmaids excited for the journey to come by giving them their first look at their part on your special day! Custom robes with the bridesmaid’s name written on them is the perfect way to make sure your bridesmaids feel included and are ready for your big day!

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Something Unique for each bridesmaid

Have bridesmaids with unique personalities? As long as you have the budget, invest time and money into gifts for each of your friends that matches their personalities! These are your closest friends so make sure they know you are honored and excited for them to join you on one of the most special moments of your life!

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